My hubby and I (who met through online dating) were looking through old high school annuals tonight. It was interesting to see how people looked then and now.
One thing we talked about was how during those days it was hard – not feeling that we looked good. That we did not have the right body or the right hair, etc.
So here we are, and most of us thinking the same thing at this point in our lives.
Why? Good question.
As boomers we are long past all of that who has the best body, or who has the best clothes. We are now, or should be at, who we want to spend the rest of our life with that has more to do with who the person is and less to do with their physical appearance.
Yes it is important to feel an attraction to your online dating partner, yes it is important that you physically connect, but at the Boomer / Zoomer stage it is way more important that you connect on more levels. So keep that in mind when you are going on an online dating site and looking for your partner.